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A great number of guys fantasize privately about ; some as aggressors, and others as victims. We feel greatly bewildered by these fantasies. They make no feel to us on a conscious level, because no one wants to be really harmed. However, in the symbolic world, to be “taken” by another might communicate a reassurance to one who believes he is profoundly unwanted. In fantasy, being might mean the opposite: that contrary to his fears, he is, indeed, so incredibly wanted that another simply cannot help himself and will even employ if necessary in order to have him. Thus, desire states both the problem and the solution to our fears. We need to viscerally feel wanted. And perhaps in our daily lives, we have built up irresistable walls to others, unable to feel the want and potential for connection that is all around us. These walls may require a psychological to come down. We carry the contraptions within us; we need only glance deeply within ourselves and construct the lives that call us into greater expression.